{"id":170,"date":"2012-10-17T19:30:33","date_gmt":"2012-10-17T19:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ericnewhouse.com\/blog\/?p=170"},"modified":"2012-10-17T19:30:33","modified_gmt":"2012-10-17T19:30:33","slug":"military-wives-shed-shirts-to-fight-ptsd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ericnewhouse.com\/blog\/military-wives-shed-shirts-to-fight-ptsd\/","title":{"rendered":"Military wives shed shirts to fight PTSD"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Military housewives from Fort Campbell, Ken., are finally getting the attention they want \u2013 and deserve \u2013 in calling the nation\u2019s attention to the plight of their husbands, who have been returning home from war with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and with traumatic brain injuries (TBI).<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Wise, 29, remembers being angry that no one was paying attention, so she thought: \u201cI feel like streaking the general\u2019s lawn. \u00a0Maybe a naked woman would get the attention.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s how the \u201cBattling Bare\u201d campaign was born, and that\u2019s how the nation began paying attention.<\/p>\n<p>The New York Daily News recently reported that Staff Sgt. Robert E. Wise, a former Marine and Army veteran who has served three tours of duty in Iraq, had been showing signs of PTSD for years, but his condition began to deteriorate last year until he finally disappeared to a hotel room with \u201ctwo cases of beer and all the guns in the house.\u201d When his wife finally located him, he told her, \u201cLife is just really hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe wasn\u2019t sure if he could go on,\u201d Wise told the Daily News. As he continued to spiral downward, she went to the military for help, but felt angry and ignored when they charged him with domestic assault for an outburst she\u2019d told them about to get help with his emotional problems.<\/p>\n<p>So she decided to act on her idea \u2026 sort of. She created the \u201cBattling Bare\u201d campaign on a Facebook page, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/BattlingBare\">http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/BattlingBare<\/a> . In the past six months, hundreds of women have taken off their shirts and inked themselves with a \u201cpledge\u201d to stand by their husbands as they heal, and to spread word that these veterans need help coping with mental health issues that can\u2019t be seen.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is a pledge that you&#8217;re making for your spouse that, in my opinion, is just as important as marriage vows,&#8221; Wise told NBC News.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a tasteful campaign, but a telling one. Wise told FOX News that she used eyeliner to pen the \u201cBattling Bare\u201d pledge on the back of Army wife Jennifer Brown. It reads:<\/p>\n<p><em>Broken by battle<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Wounded by war<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>My love is forever \u2013<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>This to you I swore.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I will quiet your silent screams<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Help heal your shattered soul<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Until once again, my love,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>You are whole.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Another of the military spouses, Alicia McCoy, told CNN that her husband, Sgt. Brandon McCoy, committed suicide in March. She said her husband sought help for PTSD, but it wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOur soldiers have a lot to say,\u201d McCoy said. \u201cThey have a lot bottled up inside of them, and no one is listening. I feel like they are afraid to be able to say what they need to say, because they\u2019re afraid it\u2019s going to hurt their record.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Wise told CNN that the \u201cBattling Bare\u201d mission is to spread the word about PTSD.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe want to ensure that the stigma of PTSD goes away and people talk about it,\u201d Wise said. \u201cThat\u2019s really the biggest thing. In talking, there\u2019s healing and not ignoring it. Because we\u2019re ignoring it now, and people are dying.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Military housewives from Fort Campbell, Ken., are finally getting the attention they want \u2013 and deserve \u2013 in calling the nation\u2019s attention to the plight of their husbands, who have been returning home from war with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and with traumatic brain injuries (TBI). 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